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Saturday, April 28, 2012

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Casual Sex: The Basic Types of Casual Sex

Casual sex is simple really. Of course everything can get complicated. You have to understand the nature of the encounter. You have to be aware of the nature of your relationship with your sexual partner. You have to be clear, even if only with yourself, about what you are wanting. If you understand the situation and there is no confusion about what is going transpire then sex is simple. If you are conflicted then the whole experience can be emotionally damaging.
There are three basic forms of casual sex, “The One Night Stand,” “The Booty Call,” and “The Friend with Benefits.” Most casual sex encounters can easily fall into one these three categories.
The One Night Stand
A one night stand is simple and the easiest way to control your emotions in a casual sex situation. A one night stand isn’t necessarily just “randomly hooking up with a guy at a bar” situation. It is any situation where you are physically attracted to someone and want to act on it. This impulse is only indulged once. You have sex understanding the only thing you feel for your partner is lust. If you are confusing your lust with any other misconception about emotional connection then don’t have sex with that person.
The Booty Call
Booty calls typically evolve from a one night stand. You fucked once. You liked fucking. You want to fuck again and again and again. The important thing to remember in this situation is that you have to be able to separate your emotions. This isn’t a budding romance, it is carnal and hedonistic. You enjoy each other in a physical sense. Don’t get involved in each other’s personal lives. You have already established a relationship based on sex. Your partner will typically have no regard for you other than as a sexual partner. Your relationship was founded on sex and it isn’t going to change. Don’t convince yourself there is potential for something more. This is just going to result in you getting hurt.
The Friend with Benefits
You have a friend. You have always wondered what it would be like to have sex with them. You either express a desire to have sex or you get drunk one night and hook up. You decide that you like sleeping together so you continue to do so. A friend with benefits situation is only pseudo casual sex. It is also the most hazardous of the three. If you are friends with this individual then there is an emotional connection between you. You know each other in a different capacity than someone who just makes your nether regions tingle. If you can’t separate your friendship from the act then don’t continue having sex. You will destroy your friendship and you will get hurt.
You have to be realistic about what you’re feeling, and if you are truly capable of separating how you feel, If you aren’t sure how you feel about your sex partner then things will get messy really fast. Casual sex can be amazing but it isn’t like sex in a relationship. It is intense moments of intimacy that are isolated to the act itself. Most people can’t have sex and feel nothing. I can’t but I love the immediacy of the connection I feel in casual sex. I also enjoy that it is only temporary. It allows you to have an emotional and physical release without all of the confusion of what comes next. If you are capable of understanding and dealing with that then enjoy the experience for what it is. If you are reading this and thinking I could never do that… then don’t. If you can’t keep it simple; don’t risk your heart. I would never advocate for anyone doing something that is self-destructive. Just be honest with yourself and how you feel.

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Sex : Is It Ever Too Soon To Have It?

How can you tell when it's the right time to have sex?

Here are some questions to ask yourself before delivering the goods :

1. Do you know his name?

No? Then it's too soon young harlot!

2. Have you gone on a date OUTSIDE of his bedroom?

You haven't? Well I'll leave you with an Amerie quote.

He's only after "One Thing" boo.

3. Did the first date consist of continuous references to his genitals?

If so, run and never look back.

4. Does he have moves like Jagger....on crack?

Yeah? Then let it go. He wouldn't know what to do with it.

5. Was he EXTREMELY touchy feely during your first encounters?

If so, get yourself a nice massage and skip the happy ending.

Never trust a man that can't keep his hands to himself.

6. Is he past the age of 30 and still living with his parents?

If yes, then...it'll never be late enough 0_o

And that's it folks!

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Good Sex Life Gives Good Health: Sex Benefits, Tips for Your Health

There are many benefits of having a good sex life. If you thought the only benefit of sex was, well, pleasure, here's some good information for you about how sex is beneficial for you?

Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better! Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

Improves Cardiovascular Health

A recent study says that men who have sex more than twice a week, had lesser risk of getting a heart attack than men who had sex less than once a month.

Reduces Stress

Stressed out with work or family problems? Don't let it affect your performance in the bedroom. Not only will having sex improve your mood, but a study has proved that folks who indulge in regular bedroom activities can handle stress better and are happier people generally.

Relieves Pain

If you're using your headache as an excuse not to make love, stop doing it. Just when you’re about to have an orgasm,the level of the hormone – Oxycontin, increases by five times. The release of endorphins reduces aches and pains.

Promotes Longevity

When one has an orgasm, a hormone called Dehydrogenate is released, which improves your immunity and keeps the skin healthy. Men who have at least two orgasms a week live longer than men who have sex just once every few weeks.

Increases Blood Circulation

Because your heart rate increases while having sex, fresh blood is supplied to your organs and cells. While used blood is removed, you also discard things from your body that cause you to feel tired.

You Sleep Better

Notice that just after you make love, you get a much relaxed sleep thereafter. A good night’s sleep will make you healthy overall.

Improves Overall Fitness

If you find going to the gym mundane or working out at home a task, here's another way to help you lose the flab and keep in shape. Regular sex will do wonders for your waistline. Half an hour of love making burns more than 80 calories! Hope these reasons are motivating enough.