What Women Love Most in the Bedroom

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How satisfied are we with our sex lives? And what do we really want in the bedroom? These aren’t new questions, but they’re the ones that FITNESS Magazineand Yahoo! Shine sought to answer when they conducted a survey of American adults focusing on their “between the sheets” thoughts, desires and behaviors.
The online survey looked at 1,000 adults between the ages of 18 and 64 throughout the U.S, turning up some interesting results about the way men and women view their own sex lives. Women’s sexuality has been an especially hot topic this year in the media with the release of television shows and films that focus on the subject (see Lena Dunham’s controversial sex scenes on “Girls” or the Maggie Gylenhaal-helmed movie“Hysteria,” about the invention of the vibrator.) What pop culture and theFITNESS and Yahoo! Shine survey indicate is that we can put to rest once and for all the myth that women aren’t as frisky as their male counterparts. Fifty percent of the women surveyed said they wanted to be having more sex.
The results seem to align with those of a Match.com-commissioned survey released in February that showed women were more likely than men to consider bad sex a relationship dealbreaker. Other recent confirmation that women are sexual beings includes the boom in the sex toy industry over the last few years — driven in large part by women purchasing vibrators. And while the bestselling erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey,” has a solid male fan base, women are its target audience and have driven its success.
Yahoo! Shine and Fitness Magazine surveyed over 1000 adults to find out what gets them in the mood as well to delve into the most intimate details of their love lives. Read on, we know you are curious.
The number one route to lovemaking for both men and women is dinner and a bottle of wine. About 24% of men and 26% of women responded that is the magic combo for getting their motors running. Younger men and women (ages 18-34) are also likely to get turned on by a sexy text or email (22% compared with only 12% of their more mature counterparts). However, nearly half of all adults (50% of men and 43% of women) have “talked dirty” over the phone to heat things up.
Hint for men: the number one way to make your lady friend feel sexy is simply to tell her, “I love you.” Nearly half of all women (42%) say this is the surest way to boost their libido. That’s almost twice as many as were turned on when their guys told them, “You are so hot” (25%).
Did you ever wonder if other people were having more sex than you? The answer depends on if you are married or single. Couples who are married or living together have sex 2.4 times a week on average, versus singles, who report they are getting busy a lusty 5.3 times a week.
The good news for couples is that 38% say they fantasize about their significant other or spouse as opposed to a colleague (19%) or a friend’s spouse (8%). The bad news is that 38% also fantasize about getting it on with a celeb.
As for the length of lovemaking sessions, interestingly, women estimate it takes, on average, 39 minutes from foreplay to the big “O,” while men estimate 45 minutes. Wishful thinking? Men also want even more time under the sheets than women: 53% of men are satisfied with the length of time they spend having sex compared to 65% of women.
Significantly more men than women would choose to have sex if given an extra hour in a day. Forty-six percent of men say that’s what they would do with their stolen time versus 24% percent of women. In fact, more women (26%) would rather catch up on some ZZZs than make love. Maybe that’s because their partner has been keeping them up late at night with lots of great sex? We hope so.
Source: Yahoo Shine/Fitness Magazine/Huffington Post

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Casual Sex: The Basic Types of Casual Sex

Casual sex is simple really.  Of course everything can get complicated.  You have to understand the nature of the encounter.  You have to be aware of the nature of your relationship with your sexual partner.   You have to be clear, even if only with yourself, about what you are wanting.  If you understand the situation and there is no confusion about what is going transpire then sex is simple.  If you are conflicted then the whole experience can be emotionally damaging.
There are three basic forms of casual sex, “The One Night Stand,” “The Booty Call,” and “The Friend with Benefits.”  Most casual sex encounters can easily fall into one these three categories.
The One Night Stand
A one night stand is simple and the easiest way to control your emotions in a casual sex situation.  A one night stand isn’t necessarily just “randomly hooking up with a guy at a bar” situation.  It is any situation where you are physically attracted to someone and want to act on it.  This impulse is only indulged once.  You have sex understanding the only thing you feel for your partner is lust.  If you are confusing your lust with any other misconception about emotional connection then don’t have sex with that person.
The Booty Call
Booty calls typically evolve from a one night stand.  You fucked once.  You liked fucking.  You want to fuck again and again and again.  The important thing to remember in this situation is that you have to be able to separate your emotions.  This isn’t a budding romance, it is carnal and hedonistic.  You enjoy each other in a physical sense.  Don’t get involved in each other’s personal lives.  You have already established a relationship based on sex.  Your partner will typically have no regard for you other than as a sexual partner.  Your relationship was founded on sex and it isn’t going to change.  Don’t convince yourself there is potential for something more.  This is just going to result in you getting hurt.
The Friend with Benefits
You have a friend.  You have always wondered what it would be like to have sex with them.  You either express a desire to have sex or you get drunk one night and hook up.  You decide that you like sleeping together so you continue to do so.  A friend with benefits situation is only pseudo casual sex.  It is also the most hazardous of the three.  If you are friends with this individual then there is an emotional connection between you.  You know each other in a different capacity than someone who just makes your nether regions tingle.  If you can’t separate your friendship from the act then don’t continue having sex.  You will destroy your friendship and you will get hurt.
You have to be realistic about what you’re feeling, and if you are truly capable of separating how you feel, If you aren’t sure how you feel about your sex partner then things will get messy really fast.  Casual sex can be amazing but it isn’t like sex in a relationship.  It is intense moments of intimacy that are isolated to the act itself.  Most people can’t have sex and feel nothing.  I can’t but I love the immediacy of the connection I feel in casual sex.  I also enjoy that it is only temporary.  It allows you to have an emotional and physical release without all of the confusion of what comes next.  If you are capable of understanding and dealing with that then enjoy the experience for what it is.  If you are reading this and thinking I could never do that… then don’t.  If you can’t keep it simple; don’t risk your heart.  I would never advocate for anyone doing something that is self-destructive.  Just be honest with yourself and how you feel.

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Sex : Is It Ever Too Soon To Have It?

How can you tell when it's the right time to have sex? 

Here are some questions to ask yourself before delivering the goods :

1. Do you know his name? 

No? Then it's too soon young harlot! 

2. Have you gone on a date OUTSIDE of his bedroom?

You haven't? Well I'll leave you with an Amerie quote.

He's only after "One Thing" boo.

3. Did the first date consist of continuous references to his genitals? 

If so, run and never look back.

4. Does he have moves like Jagger....on crack?

Yeah? Then let it go. He wouldn't know what to do with it.

5. Was he EXTREMELY touchy feely during your first encounters?

If so, get yourself a nice massage and skip the happy ending. 

Never trust a man that can't keep his hands to himself.

6. Is he past the age of 30 and still living with his parents?

If yes, then...it'll never be late enough 0_o

And that's it folks! 

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Good Sex Life Gives Good Health: Sex Benefits, Tips for Your Health

There are many benefits of having a good sex life. If you thought the only benefit of sex was, well, pleasure, here's some good information for you about how sex is beneficial for you?

Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better! Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

Improves Cardiovascular Health

A recent study says that men who have sex more than twice a week, had lesser risk of getting a heart attack than men who had sex less than once a month.

Reduces Stress

Stressed out with work or family problems? Don't let it affect your performance in the bedroom. Not only will having sex improve your mood, but a study has proved that folks who indulge in regular bedroom activities can handle stress better and are happier people generally.

Relieves Pain

If you're using your headache as an excuse not to make love, stop doing it. Just when you’re about to have an orgasm,the level of the hormone – Oxycontin, increases by five times. The release of endorphins reduces aches and pains.

Promotes Longevity

When one has an orgasm, a hormone called Dehydrogenate is released, which improves your immunity and keeps the skin healthy. Men who have at least two orgasms a week live longer than men who have sex just once every few weeks.

Increases Blood Circulation

Because your heart rate increases while having sex, fresh blood is supplied to your organs and cells. While used blood is removed, you also discard things from your body that cause you to feel tired.

You Sleep Better

Notice that just after you make love, you get a much relaxed sleep thereafter. A good night’s sleep will make you healthy overall.

Improves Overall Fitness

If you find going to the gym mundane or working out at home a task, here's another way to help you lose the flab and keep in shape. Regular sex will do wonders for your waistline. Half an hour of love making burns more than 80 calories! Hope these reasons are motivating enough.

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